M-13 Has anyone ever hated you?

[koli]

:welcome: I dont know if anyone made this thread already; I'm talking to my friend and for some reasone he sent me something (via Instant message) that his friend hates me. I dont understand. I haven't known him long enough to have ever gotten into a confrontation with him. Has anyone just ever been mean towards you or just not like you for no reason whatsoever.

[Weatherby]

I've been told that I was hated.
I'm not sure how seriously they meant it though. Sometimes people overstate feelings. They also decide you're not so bad when someone else pisses them off more. That's usually how such relationships end.

People have treated me shabbily before too. I wouldn't say it was for no reason but simply because they could.

[Aranel]

I don't know, maybe, if someone has, they haven't told me about it.
I sure people have disliked me, I usually come off as a snob on first impression.
Just remember that if people are gonna treat you like a piece of dirt, they aren't worth your time, I know it's a cliche, but it's true. Just try to forget about that type of thing, it's not constructive at all and really, one person not liking you does matter in the whole scheme of things... I mean, out of all the people you are ever gonna meet, there is no way that you are going to get along with all of them. It's just the way I see things. And as for people who hate for no apparent reason, I have no idea why people do this, maybe it's some weird type of self-gratification or whatever, I don't understand people like that.

[rotsiepots]

I usually get on with people really well. There's only ever been one person who I can think of who actually despised me. I'm not really sure why she didn't like me much, because I really didn't have any issues with her existence.

You can't control what people think about you, so I never really let someone hating me bother me. If that's the best thing they have to do with their time, then so be it.

[Kaonashi]

I sure have, and you know what? No matter where you go or who you are, there's going to be someone who doesn't even know you that is not going to like you for the stupidest and shallowest of reasons. Don't even waste one inch of sleep on it..it's their problem, don't make it yours. Anyone who would make a snap judgement like that is not worth an ounce of your time wondering why they hate you.

[STrelawney]

Sure, I've been hated, or so they say. Though I do agree with Weatherby. People overstate their emotions way too much these days for anyone to take seriously.

Oh, by the way. This is my first message. Yay. :shrug:

[viktorija_hp]

I was hated by one "so-called" friend. It really hurted me at that time, but I don't care about thoose things anymore. I learned that it's not my problem and that it's important to have your own opinion about yourself and not listen to opinions of people who don't even know you.
I don't see any purpose of hating someone, it's waste of time. If you dislike someone, there is no purpose to even think about that person.

[Mireille]

Not everyone can like you. Different personalities are going to clash sooner or later. For me, I had one girl in middle school who hated me. I'm not sure why because I never talked to her. The only connection I had with her was that her locker was next to mine and that I always got there before her. To this day I still don't understand her reasoning for hating me.

Another person who hates me is a woman I work with. She and I used to get along but after I left for college and came back she was a horrible beast with me. She won't talk to me, or others, and she is always criticizing my work from afar. The only reason I know this is because one of the girls that I got along with really well told me that she was complaning about my work. Then a few days later she says rather loudly, "Some people don't know how to do their job." Well, I was the only one there with her, so I knew she was talking about me.

But hating people is part of life. There are just some people that will never like you.

[caro1984]

I don't know if people hate me but they don't like me... I'm overweight. For years, people made fun of me or acted like I didn't exist simply because of my weight. Today, people only ignore me. I don't go to people because I know people will probably reject me.

[WeasleyIsOurKing]

Hmm. No one has ever "hated" me (knock on wood). Well, one time in the sixth grade, this one girl said she hated me because I was going out with the boy she liked, but the boy and I broke up, he moved to Florida, and all is now well.

Otherwise, I tend to get along with people pretty well. I don't do things to make people mad. People view me as "the nice girl" and I don't mind. I would rather be the nice girl than the b***** girl.

[OrioCookie]

I've been hated. But most of the time I have like five friends waiting around the corner for me. And even though I really shouldn't care that people hate me it hurts. I may not even know the person but I still get that stone feeling in my stomach.

[bellatrix669]

I've been hated by both my peers and teachers, sometimes justifiably, most times not. In 8th grade, some girl decided that she hated me for spreading rumors about her, which was not true. I was mad, so I did some stuff to her and ended up being hated by her friends as well. In 10th grade, after getting a needed recommendation bungled by the quiz bowl coaches, I was determined to get my revenge. So I spilled a bunch of dirt on both teachers whom I thought were responsible for the bungling (It turns out that only one was). This was easy because they had both done sketchy things in the past and I remembered. One teacher almost got fired (turns out she really had done nothing wrong), and the other got sternly reprimanded. Everything I had said was the truth, but she went about trying to make me pay. This resulted in a team "intervention" which basically was the whole team getting together to blame me for vague offenses, like trying to divide the team and therefore causing them to lose to a school we should have beaten. By the end of all this, the mere thought of going to practice induced a panic attack. I took a year off from quiz bowl, returned my senior year, and was told that I was on probation for things that I had allegedly done in 10th grade and if she even thought I did anything wrong, I would lose any scholarship money I earned from doing this. Sorry for the length of this; this is just a sensitive topic for me.

[swishandflick]

Well, no one has ever said "I hate you" to me, but Im not a particularly poplular person, so Im not well liked I guess. Its impossible for everyone to like you, but I think that most people pretty much ignore me and are sort of indifferent. I really cant stand my economics class though, that woman, arggg. Its horrible, dont ever take economics if its possible.

[leenielou]

Hate is such a strong word. It's sharp, and acidic, and I don't like to use it much. If someone used it against me in the context that I think of it, I would be very upset.

Saying that, I'm sure that I can think of a few people that would. Years 8-9 in high school I was the b***h. There's one in every school, the "leader"? I'm so ashamed to say that was me. I made a few enemies for life there, I'm sure. One girl in particular, I know if I met her today she'd probably gouge my eyes out. She could be justified as well, that's the scary thing. Luckily I've grown up since then.

[PhoenixUK]

Loads of people hate me. The problem with being open about your beliefs is that that's what you get. To be honest, anyone who hates you for what you believe isn't worth bothering with anyway.

[tabby]

I'm very blunt. A lot of people don't like that. They'd rather be lied to and deceived. So, yeah, there are people who hate me.

I can't say it bothers me. It's their loss.

[Prof.Aze]

Maybe someone have... But since i didn't know about it then i didn't care...

[Hufflepuffy]

I have an ex-friend who hates me. I'm not really sure what her problem is. Some kind of chemical imbalance, or at least a need for some therapy. But I'm not really concerned about it. Being her friend wasn't healthy for me, I can't think of a more stressful time of my life then the 3 years we were "best friends". Our friendship fell apart when her boyfriend (an old friend of mine) broke up with her. Somehow, in her demented mind, she thought he broke up with her because I convinced him to, because I wanted to date him (couldn't be farther from the truth). We kinda made up and were sort of friends for a few more years, but then I mentioned her to a mutual friend, and somehow that turned into me talking about her behind her back. So she told me to never talk to her again, and never talk about her to anyone every again. For the rest of my life. So maybe I shouldn't even be mentioning her here. ;)

[DMrazB]

Yes. lol. and it makes me angry. It's so stupid. My friend Katie is on and off with me. One minute she'll hate me and then the next she's like, "I love you kim!"

[complicated]

yeh that happens to my bestfriend(don't know if we are still bestfriend yet) Linda. But i'm not the one who does it tho. it's just this girl emma does it to her. Emma would be like in one second she hates Linda and then the other second she just like her but i think i know why. Because my other friends sam and tia are like the most popular girls in our grade and emma is only like a follower. like when sam hates linda she hates linda too, but when Sam doesn't hate linda anymore emma does the same. you see what is my point?? but anywayz back to the topic. I was hated back in primary school which was last year. I got told by my "best friend" Ellise that the whole class hates me because i was immature. And it always hurted me and lower my self esteem very much. Before that Ellise told me i have already wondered why they kind of ignore me sometimes or exclude me and i know why because they hate me. But in my class i know that some people didn't hate me so that was a good thing. It got a lot better now in high school but sometimes i get ignored or ditched but i learned that they do not hate me they just busy or something. But if they ditch you for someone better , you should go find someone else better and not to waste time with the person who ditched you. and that is what i'm going through. because i feel like Linda is ditching me but i think she doesn't realise doing it but i'm hanging out with other people and trying to get over that. It hurts to think that she ditched me for someone else better because Linda is like my life, my family. if she is gone i'll be in pain...so i'm working hard to get over it.

[Dedalus]

I've had lots of people who didn't like me or treated me like vermin, but not many people have put in the energy to actually hate me. I have had a few people hate me, however. Which is nice.

[Constant Vigilance]

:welcome: I dont know if anyone made this thread already; I'm talking to my friend and for some reasone he sent me something (via Instant message) that his friend hates me. I dont understand. I haven't known him long enough to have ever gotten into a confrontation with him. Has anyone just ever been mean towards you or just not like you for no reason whatsoever.
Yes, lots of people hate me. I volunterred to join the army in Chile so that really did not help my popularity ratings. I also belive in a bunch of stuff people laugh at, like spending a lot of time at church. But if you stand up for what you belive, you can't be friends with everybody. What do you care if they hate you? As long as they don't punch you, just ignore it. Specially if it's a stranger. I mean he/she can grind his teeth hating you and what do you care? Not your problem. Just ignore him/her.

[Picko]

I played basketball at a club where over time the players began to hate me because I didn't drink or eat at McDonalds :lol: Yep, completely rational this one :D

[Constant Vigilance]

I played basketball at a club where over time the players began to hate me because I didn't drink or eat at McDonalds :lol: Yep, completely rational this one :D
What? Hated you for not eating at McDonald's? Congratulations, I just nominated you for an award: meeting the weirdest weirdos on earth! What ever happened to healthy body, healthy mind? I hope you found new basketball partners!

PS: It's OK to hate Jar Jar

[tizzy weasley]

OH yes, I've had people hate. Some had gone farther in hating me, because I have no idea. I usually get along with anyone really. But that's up to the person to judge.

[STrelawney]

Though this is still a touchy subject for me, even 2 years on, I'm still going to go ahead and say it.

Since I was 11 (a good 5 years ago) I was being bullyed by my *ahem* 'Friends'. I noticed alot of people writing about so- called friends talking about them behind their backs or anything related to it. After 3 years of it, I can honestly say that I have regrets and somethings will always stay in my mind. People say here that it's 'their problem', 'their loss', 'ignore them'. I say that it's impossible.

[Constant Vigilance]

Though this is still a touchy subject for me, even 2 years on, I'm still going to go ahead and say it.

Since I was 11 (a good 5 years ago) I was being bullyed by my *ahem* 'Friends'. I noticed alot of people writing about so- called friends talking about them behind their backs or anything related to it. After 3 years of it, I can honestly say that I have regrets and somethings will always stay in my mind. People say here that it's 'their problem', 'their loss', 'ignore them'. I say that it's impossible.


Ok, some people can't be ignored. That's why the concept of self defence exists, to keep this creeps away.

If anybody bullies you, don't consider him/her a friend. Get help from someone that can defend you (say teachers) and get new friends. Really bad to stick with people like that. You'll have lots of problems ignoring them because, many times, they will sap your self esteem. 3 years! Time to call it enough.

[Finch]

I met a girl named *Katie* (changed her name to be nice) and *Katie* has hated me since before gradeschool. I'm not positive exactly why, but I think it's because I'm friends with her best friend. *Katie* is the type of person who can only have one friend at a time, so she chases everyone else but her best friend away. I'm not sure it's hate exactly, but it's pointless dislike and the mistreatment of other people.

[Mireille]

It sort of sounds like *Katie* doesn't know that having more then one friend is healthy.

I've already said who hates me, but I forgot someone. An ex-boyfriend hates my guts now because I apparetly hurt the feelings of my best friend in high school who he is friends with as well. She and I have patched things up but he is still a bear. Oh, well. It doens't matter, he was so gone from my life as it was.

[Gibs]

I have been hated by a lot of people and some of them prob still hate me. When I was young I had the stupid idea of hanging out with my cousins who were skinheads at the time (not racist skinhead) and we got into a lot of trouble and made a lot of enemies.

[Benzo]

That was a colleague she was nice with me then at the end of the school year, she completely changed, ignoring me but I never found why even if I have my theories about that. Jealousy maybe.

When I was a teen, some tachers, just because they didn't like my brothers.... That does give you many chances...

[Dark Fallen Pride]

Has anyone ever hated me?
Well maybe, I don't know, I am usually ignored, which can be just as bad as being hated. I have never really talked to anyone that much, so maybe they hate me for being stuck up(which I am not) I try to be careful to what I say to people, because in a small school things can travel fast, and get mixed up, or so I have seen...so, no I don't think I am hated, but I don't really know for sure.

[koli]

some people responded to my question with things like of course people will "hate you" different personalities, or it isn't important. I personally don't care if everyone likes me. I am not one to please everyone i come across. I was just wondering if anyone really has had some one truely hate them. Like have such a loathing and despise, where it actually made you sit back and wonder, why? Usually if someone doesn't liek me its tough doo doo for them lol. But like a few times some people for whatever their reason have just hated me. And it kind of is personaly degrading knowing just being yourself doing nothing to a person can make them so angry at you. Makes you wonder what kind of people are going to mold the world one day. Why woudl they just decide that. Another question to answer please, have you ever disliked someone for no reason at all? (perhaps not hated b/c a lot of people have candid reasons for hating someone truely)

[firebolt2000]

I don't know if people have hated me. Hate is a pretty strong word. I know people who don't like me, and maybe justifiably so. But no one has come up to me and told me that they hated me. I would imagine that is a pretty hurtful and rather mean thing to do to someone. I don't think I ever really hated anyone, just probably disliked them a lot. I try not hate, it isn't a good feeling to have hate for someone.

[Jill]

Well I can definetly say that all the mods and admin on i.hp hate me. They must have to use every hurtful thing against me and why to hurt me more.

Well who needs friends anyway.. :grumble:

[Mireille]

Well who needs friends anyway.. :grumble:


A life without friends is a sad and lonley one. So, yes, everyone needs at least one good friend. If you have more it means you will be happier. And with a good friend by your side, you can live life and not look back at the people that hate you.

[Jill]

A life without friends is a sad and lonley one. So, yes, everyone needs at least one good friend. If you have more it means you will be happier. And with a good friend by your side, you can live life and not look back at the people that hate you.

Good point, your write, that is so true.

By the way, I think I need to correct that last statement a bit.

Well I can definetly say that all the mods and admin on i.hp hate me. They must have to use every hurtful thing against me and why to hurt me more.

Well who needs friends anyway.. :grumble:

Well I can definetly say that some mods and the super admin person and 1 admin person disliked me. The super admin especially because he used every hurtful thing against me and why to hurt me even more.

Anyway at least I know I have an admin friend over there because I snook on over a week ago and found the admin friend there who for reason did not ban me stright away even though there was only three of us there. Then I was joined by several mods and the super admin and then found myself banned. Anyway I left the screen the way it was to get something knowing that when I pressed a button I would end up back on the registration page. You know what, I found my account reactivated and there where my friends and the admin friend and we chated for about a couple of minutes before nasty super admin guy came on and banned me himself. The only way I could have got on there again was if that admin friend had gone behind the super admins back and reactivated my account. God, I hope she didn't get into trouble for that cos I never told her to do it.

So I guess I do have some cyber net friends on that site but more so I have friends on here that will hopeful not ban me...

I have found a couple of friends, well possible friends to be, but it takes a while to know if there really going to be friends doesn't it.

[nightingale]

I have found a couple of friends, well possible friends to be, but it takes a while to know if there really going to be friends doesn't it.

So true. As they say, "A friend in need is a friend indeed." I really shouldn't be quoting that, I don't understand what it means. Well, anywho, what I'm trying to say is you know who your true friends are when they've seen you through thin and thick.

I really do hope no one's hated/hates me. I don't know of anyone that has, well, once in the second grade, but that was partially my fault. We got over it. I have a humongous complex with trying to keep everyone happy. I fret when those I don't even like appear to be angry with me. Sometimes I wish I didn't care, but I can't help it.

[Mireille]

Let's break the "A friend in need is a friend indeed" apart, shall we?

The way that I read it, "A friend in need" is saying that when you need something, like affection or support you go to your friends. You litterally "need" them.

"is a friend indeed" is harder. It's probably saying that the person that is needing you is supplying you with a duty. It's hard to say.

Well, my list of people that hate me keeps growing it seems. Add my current roommate to the list.

[nightingale]

That's always confused me, shouldn't it be something along the lines of, "A friend who helps a friend in need is a friend indeed" ? Bah, I have no idea what I'm talking about.

[Jill]

You know I used to have friends but we moved and I lost touch with them. They where really good friends to. They where the ones that I played rpg's with, where you had to use your full imagination, no mini characters or maps, just book reading, learning and imagining an advanture unfolding before your very eyes.

Now I am not sure about friends, had a lot that let me down and a few that left me with no come back in life at all. So most of the time I find it hard to do things with others. Friendship bounds are so fragile. Or is that just jillyweed. Oh well, never mind. I am going to bash bellatrix now or lucius on those threads just to get rid of some tension today...I promise that the bashing will only be at the characters and not at all at you wonder people.

[DRxD]

I know a couple of people who think I'm stuck up because I'm shy (I'm not). And I get ignored a lot. I dunno if anyone hates me... except for one of my old friends, who stopped talking to me and ignored me completely. I think it was jealousy.

[HannahStarr]

If anyone has ever hated me, I've never been told about it. Most people would say that I have a sweet personality because I'm really nice, so if someone did hate me, I'd want to know why. I've had some teachers who didn't particularly like me because I never spoke up in class, but I don't know if they acutally hated me or not.

[Masterfroggy]

Hate is like tooth ache, you can get used to it, To me it's like an old but unwelcome friend, I was hated everyday by people who don't know me, I have been spat on, shouted at, had people drive their high-powered cars at me, I have been forced of the road on my way home from work, I have been shot at with nails fired from homemade weapons, I have been threatened with knives, I was stabbed a few years ago, My arm was broken in an "accident" People had filled my personal locker at work with the contents of the toilet, my food has been poisoned at work, I had check everything I ate for glass, and stuff.

When I reported this to my superiors I was warned that if I wanted to make a formal protest I would be risking my family as much as I was risking my health, I can hear you saying "no way this guy must be lying," but thats up to you.

And the reason all this has happened I am an outsider because I am not a racist, simple as that. If someone made a racist joke at work I would either tell them my thoughts on their racist rubbish or just leave the room (for many reasons this reaction shames me the most) 10 months on I have left that job, and now work night on my own, but I still find it hard to unlearn the survival habits, I keep my food with me at all times, I drive a different route home everyday, park my car where it can be seen from my house.

[hermy_weasley2]

I may sound completely oblivious and maybe even concieted here,but I don't think anyone has hated me. I used to want someone to hate, becuase I had this sort of secret wish to cause trouble and drama, but I've gotten over that. I don't think anyone has ever hated me. I tend to stay out of people's wa and I get along with just about everybody. I don't why. I've hated people though. Now I know that sounds concieted. Or at least, if they have hated me, they never told me or acted like it. There wa this one girl who hated me in fifth grade, but in sixth grade she apologized for that and said she never really me meant it.

[Jill]

I guess there are friends and there are FRIENDS in this world. I don't think I have either in reality. Anyway friendships I hard to make as my life is so up and down. The only people that have ever hated me are the ones that never get to know or stay around to know me long enough. I had this one friend who knew when to leave me alone and when to give me helping hand. Most people find this line in me difficult to see. I guess its because I get all moody and there are two moody modes, one that shouts out, hug me and the other, go away and leave me alone. Apparently I have been told that there isn't much difference between these two moody states and sometime they can merge resulting in a hug me while at the same time get lost. Now that is really confusing for me and the friend.......

I no I can't stand it when I go to cinema and well like take someone with me and then they start to talk, they did this through HP films and LotR and that just ticks me off. Its just well you pay money to watch it not listen to you next neighbour going on and on and on and you even go sh....and it doesn't work with the past friends I had, which have been far and few between.

People do hate me and sometimes for all the wrong reason because they have not got to know the real jillyweed.

I would say I am at the moment in the later moody state and for very good reasons today. I think I need chocolate but it is about 2.00am in the morning so where would I get it from.

[FlyingPhoenix]

Hate? Hate's me? Are you kidding? Nobody did ever hates me. I'm a to lovely person... :huh:
Nah, I think there were people and let face it still people who hate me with passion but sadly I ignore them. I know its a bad thing but hey I can't handle irrational arguments.
Never did someone corner me and attack me. Why? I don't know though I know people who told me things like that "I meet you after the school and than you're dead...!" Well I was there and went home like always but I never saw someone who wanted to attack me.
I wasn't someone who had ten or more guys or girls around me so they were afraid rather a poor weirdo, I think. Still its amazing that I gone through my school without to use my fists or any violents. Nor someone used it against me.
And I'm not that old you could say this was normal.
I think it was my charming smile why it was like that :D

[SiriuslyBria]

I've pretty much been told by one or two people that they hate me. Because of a character I like in another fandom I did once get a nasty email telling me I didn't deserve to live and should do the world a favor by killing myself. :rolleyes: All because I liked a character this person (who so bravely didn't identify themselves) didn't! If they were serious, that's taking fandom way too far. If they weren't, well, it's really not funny. But that's the sort of thing I just shrug off. This person really didn't know me, so I really don't care if they don't like me.

[Laufa]

Yeps, I can think of one person who most definatly hates my guts..and I hate him. A strong word, but he ruined a year of my life, i don't forgive that easily ;)

An ex-b/f who treated me like dung, accused me of cheating with every other bloke, was really mentally abusive etc. etc, he had total control over me..then after we broke up he started threatening every guy I went out with to kick his *** (even follofollowed us when we were out and about, came to my school with a !"#$%& knife!!!) and then we had a fight..yes, a FIGHT, him and about 15 other guys beat my friend up. He had a bit of a go at me, and threw a glass bottle at my friend..
A lovely guy!

But I've never had friends to hate me..I don't think anyone apart from that guy has said those words to me..don't even know if he said it, but I could feel it.. :no:

Anyway, enough rambling.

Love,
Eyrún

[Hpmons]

I can honestly say that I cant think of a single person that could hate me.

Having just written that, I have thought of a person. Its a long story, but basically its through no fault of my own - the person who probably hated me was a parent. It is, however, totally understandable why they would hate me.

Lots of people may have disliked me slightly over the years, but not strong enough to call hate or for them to even to dwell on the thought. Just they thought i was weird, or too shy or something, but nothing strong.

[Cish_hp92]

HATE is a very strong word...i'd rather say dislike.
yes there are probably loads of ppl out there who dislike me...
i have this academic competitor to whom i always try to be nice but she has this kink in her brain that i'm just setting her up to beat her in the grade.
wierd.
oh and i believe lots of my fellow classmates do too,,,they think I'm kind of snobbish. Funny how people always blame you and pick fauts but never try to see the positive side of things.
I know so many people(including teachers) who loathe me for my bluntness, self-respect and other stuff but they don't know what i am like really, do they? its not as if i hang around with them all the time that they really know me...they just make assumptions on outward personalities and are always biased.
BUt I don't believe that u have to get along wit everyone...everone has encountered such a feeling of "dislike" atleast once in life so its completely natural

[Ellesse]

I think I am quite a nice person, though I haven't always been so I probably have been hated but I've never been told. I know some people who probably seriously dislike me but I think hate is probably too strong a word.
I've hated people, I don't know if that makes me a bad person. I've always had reasons to justify my hatred for a person, which I wont go into or I will probably end up saying some stuff that isn't suitable for a family friendly forum.

[Tane]

Well no one is perfect in this world and therefore everyone whether they know it or not will have someone who dislikes them. I probably have people who can't stand the sight of me but so what, if they don't like what they see or hear then why waste time taking note of that hatered. Just be who you are and if people don't like it then tough. You can not change to meet the needs of everyone you come into contact with.

[GryffindorGr]

Wow, as the above posters said, hate is such a strong word. But let's face it, there are people we probably know or unknowingly hate us for dumb reasons. Maybe because of jealousy (I am recalling that star wars theme...jealousy leads to anger and anger leads to hate...something like that) but it's pretty unavoidable in life because you can't please everyone. Nor should you try.

I can recall as early as 4 or 5 years old when it was first my week at school and already I had made a couple of best friends but there was one girl who hated me with a passion. I don't know why. It's as if she detested the fact that I had made friends so easily and she was trying so hard to make best friends with people (I'm looking at this as a 3rd person pov now...) and maybe, in my ignorance, I never gave her a 2nd look as a friend. (I think that's why--and I believe everything happens like "takes 2 to tango", so there's a reason for things) but I'm saddened that I was so unaware of it then.

[hesdead-dealwithit]

Oh, of course. People are hating mre right now.

I firmly believe that if no one hates you, you need to take a long look at the way you are living your life.

[thinkpink38]

Nope, no one has ever hated me, but There maybe people whom I dont even know who hate me, because I am an arab(nobody at school, Im talking about outside of school, as weird as that sounds). . Masterfroggy, thats horrible its ridiculus how far a person might go, not to mention childish. I was once nealry pushed of the road while driving home from school, by this old man...(it was strange) Or wait, one time, at school, I had this goth (weares black from head to toe) come up to me and call me a jerk..I was like, what, who are you :huh: ?! But, Ive never hated a person.

[Animagi rock!]

Sure I've been hated before. It's stopped now that I go to college, though. For some reason it's been so easy to make friends there, something I've always had trouble doing before because I'm rather shy and tend to choose my friends carefully.
Anyway... all through highschool there was this girl that was really cool (or so she thought) and really popular and she loathed me. It might have been because I was one of the few people who didn't show too much interest in her and she always wanted to be the center of attention. She'd tell all kinds of lies about me behind my back and she'd try and put me down every time she had a chance. I was really disturbed by it at first, because I didn't have as much self esteem back then as I have now, but as time went by I somehow just stopped caring.
I don't think I've been hated by anyone else. As I said I choose my friends carefully and just stay clear of everyone else, so the worst thing that can happen is that they'll think I'm a snob, or a nerd, or both, and will just ignore me. I'm OK with that, seeing as they usually leave me alone.

[Charmed]

Generally I'm an easy going person and I get or at least try to get along with everyone. I'd like to think that a person has never hated me but I'm sure there is one. And the feeling is mutual. I went to school with her and even though I haven't seen her for two years the thought of her still makes my blood boil.

[vickygirl4]

People have definately hated me. There is one girl in particular who started hating me for no reason. We used to be friends, but then we went to England together and joined the same History Day group. Then one day she all of a sudden wrote me an e-mail saying that I was stupid because I cared about grades too much and that getting into a good college isn't that important (even though she's the one who has private tutors and studies for about 6 hours a day). And she said that my best friend and I were too close and that we should argue more. She finished the letter off by saying that I will die and no one will care. After that, we obviously stoppen being friends. However, now she writes for the school newspaper, and in ever one of her articles there is a subtle mention about me. it's horrible!